I help couples navigate what’s underneath the surface. Relationships can shift in ways neither partner expected. Maybe you feel more like roommates than partners, or arguments have turned into a high-conflict cycle you can’t seem to break. Maybe trust has been broken through betrayal or infidelity, and you’re unsure whether or how to rebuild. Couples come to me at every point along that range, from wanting to communicate more clearly to feeling like the relationship itself is on the line.

Often there’s a life transition in the background, like a career shift, a move, a new baby, or a discovery that changes everything. Sometimes it isn’t one event but years of small disconnections that have quietly added up, until who you’ve each become doesn’t quite match where you thought you were headed together. Either way, my focus is on getting past the surface conflict to what’s actually driving it, and rebuilding trust and connection from there.

I also work with couples where ADHD is part of the picture, especially when one partner was diagnosed later in life. In a relationship, ADHD often shows up as misread intentions, mismatched effort, or friction that neither partner has language for. Understanding it clearly helps you work with it as a team instead of against each other.

Reaching out for couples therapy takes courage, especially when things feel tense or uncertain between you. If one or both of you feel your relationship deserves a closer look, I’d be glad to talk about what you’re facing and whether I’m the right fit to help you find a way forward.